LAST month it was revealed that Harry Styles, 25, is dating the Cowboys and Aliens actress Olivia Wilde, 35.
Wilde who was married to Jason Sudeikis, 45, the father of her two children, has reportedly left the Horrible Bosses star devastated.
Harry Styles has form in dating older women: from the late Caroline Flack, who was 14 years his senior to Taylor Swift, who is five years older than him.
Such a penchant for older women is something that Hally Hakeem, 23, also shares.
He says he has dated women aged 25 – 52 and nowadays he prefers women who are older than him.
“There are less games with them. In bed and out of it they tell you what you want. They don’t mess you around either.”
The teaching assistant who works at a special needs school and lives in London describes himself as single.
He explains he can’t remember a time when he has gone out with a woman the same age as him. His interest was first sparked as a teenager.
He says: “I started dating at 14 and my girlfriend was 18. When I was 20 I started seeing women in their late 20s.
“I have always been interested in older women. I feel I get along with them easier and have more in common.”
They know how to talk about their feelings – they have a good outlook on the world and a lot of wisdom to share
Hally reckons that women his age aren’t as open minded and experienced under the sheets or when it comes to maintaining coupledom.
“In the bedroom girls my age don't really know what to do, whereas older women have really opened my eyes and taught me things I'd never learn elsewhere. It's win-win they have a good time and so do I. But I can also use that experience to satisfy other women.
“They know how to talk about their feelings – they have a good outlook on the world and a lot of wisdom to share.
“I am someone who knows how to listen to what they have to say too.”
Hally says the oldest woman he has dated was 52 – they saw one another for a few months when he was in his early 20s.
“I like to say we "entertained" one another and I came off better with the relationship because she was incredible.
“It might be a cliché but she was a total MILF. She’s a good looking woman with a sweet personality. Nowadays the older the women are, the better they look after themselves.
“While our relationship only lasted a few months it was an experience which taught me a lot in bed. She really opened my eyes.”
Hally says it’s “50-50” who approaches who and he meets just as many women in real life as he does on the apps.
“I’m a confident person. If I see an attractive woman and I’m drawn to her then I will ask for her number. The worst that can happen is she will say no.
“Outside of corona I’d meet women when I was out at with friends or in a club. Nowadays it is mainly via the apps.
“When women discover my age I either get, ‘Oh you’re just a baby!’ or they ask me if I’m okay about their age.
“I don’t put any pressure on them. I understand it can be their first time with a younger guy.
“But if I have matched with them online then it’s because I like what I see – I don’t care about the numbers on a birthday card.”
Women in their 30s and 40s are always at the gym. MILFs are incredible to be with.
Hally admits a lot of women he dates do have kids – and some are around his age.
“One woman I met while coaching some kids for sport. We spotted one another after the session. I told her I found her attractive.
“We exchanged numbers and dated for a while. We had loads in common – we both liked going to the gym and working out together. She liked going to coffee shops which wasn’t really my thing but we did it anyway.
“She would send the kids to her mums in the week so we could spend intimate time together.”
Hally reckons it isn’t an issue when women have kids around his age because most older women are savvy enough to keep family life away from their sex life.
He says: “Some have had kids my age or a year or two younger but they’re not interested in introducing me to them. They prefer to keep things separate – which is fine by me.
“I don’t worry about things like stretchmarks or women who have breastfed their kids.
"Women in their 30s and 40s are always at the gym. MILFs are incredible to be with.
“Outside of bed I'm a good listener. I was brought up by a single mum and lots of these women are in the same boat. I get it and they know they can sound off without it going any further.”
Hally says the longest relationship he had was with a women in her late 20s when he was in his teens.
“We were together for a year and I learnt so much. It might sound as though I was too young but it was real enough to me.”
When it comes to splitting the bills Hally reckons he pays his way – most of the time.
“There was one woman I saw when I was 20 and she was 33. She paid for us to go to spas and hotels together. We had good fun and she’d take care of me but I had to end it with her. She wanted to get serious and I wasn't ready to settle down.”
Hally believes his romantic future lies with an older woman.
If I wanted a long term relationship with one I know I could have one tomorrow. But I’m single – for now.
“There are less games and time wasted with older women – they know what they want. They are very clear about whether they want someone to date or have some fun with.
“What guy wouldn’t want to be with a woman like that?”
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