A Daily Star reader wrote in to agony aunt Jane O'Gorman to get advice on their hunky but heartbreaking neighbour.
She said: "I enjoyed a threesome with the hunk next door and his former secretary.
"It was exciting at the time, but I don’t want to share him again.
"It wouldn’t be an exaggeration to say that I’m obsessed with my neighbour. I know I shouldn’t still be slipping into his bed, but I can’t help myself.
"He is a fantastic person. Not only is he sexy and attractive, but he’s generous and funny too.
"The one thing he’s not, however, is a keeper. He’s warned me he’s not interested in commitment, children or planning a future. This kills me."
She continued: "We first connected in 2015 when I bought this place. He rocked up the very first night with a bottle of plonk and a cheeky grin on his face. I fell hard. We kissed, we touched, and he helped me christen my new bed.
"Since then, I’ve been sleeping with him on a regular basis.
"Frequently I give myself a good talking to. I tell myself to keep away from him because my life hasn’t moved on in over five years, but it’s so hard to consider other guys when Adonis is on my doorstep.
"He’s always urging me to carve out a proper life for myself. He makes no secret of the fact that he talks dirty to other women and sleeps around when he can. That recent threesome was commonplace for him.
"The problem is he’s not a rat. I think I could break away and start to hate him if he treated me badly, but he doesn’t.
"He’s lovely, honest and charming – which makes him so hard to resist. He likes me but doesn’t like the idea of being tied down.
"He says I’m more than welcome to pop over for sex, but I’m not to expect anything more."
Thankfully, Jane was on hand to share her brutally honest advice…
JANE SAYS: I’m not sure I buy into the idea of your neighbour being a lovely, charming guy.
He didn’t waste any time getting into your pants the very first night you moved into your new home, did he?
He was more eager than the average beaver.
Since then, you’ve continued to ricochet in and out of his place on a regular basis and I have to conclude that he loves the sex and he loves the attention.
I suspect he gets off on the fact that you adore him. But this on-going situation isn’t good for your self-respect.
How are you ever going to move on and meet someone who is a keeper while you’re wasting your time on him?
You describe your threesome as “recent”. Are we talking before March of last year or after? If it was after, then you have to start taking responsibility for your actions. This is not the time to bed-hop or play silly games. Think of the wider issue.
This guy is only out for himself and doesn’t have your best interests at heart.
Are you going to allow five more years to pass without putting your house in order?
Come on, sort yourself out.
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