I’m cheating on my wife with another man and she’s about to catch on

DEAR DEIDRE: I’M cheating on my wife with another man – and she’s about to catch on.

We have been married for eight years.

My wife is 39, I’m 40 and I have had gay thoughts for years but I hoped getting married would put an end to my sexual fantasies. It didn’t.

I work for a large delivery firm and I fdlirt every day with another guy I worl with in the office.

He is gay and we hooked up one night in the summer.

We meet when we get the chance and the sex is fantastic.

But afterwards I suffer from swelling on my penis and my wife has noticed.

It will break her heart if she finds out the truth – and break mine too if I lose my home. But I can’t stop seeing my colleague.

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DEIDRE SAYS: Being gay or bisexual is no excuse for cheating.

Your wife deserves to hear the truth.

What’s more, you could be spreading coronavirus, as well as sexually transmitted infections, given you are cheating.

Someone is inevitably going to get hurt. Stop sleeping with your colleague until you have worked out with your wife what you both want.

Get the symptoms you experience after sex checked out with your doctor.

And speak to Terrence Higgins Trust (tht.org.uk, 0808 802 1221) for advice.

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