I'm worried my girlfriend thinks I'm only with her for sex

DEAR DEIDRE: I AM worried I’ve ruined my relationship by inadvertantly making my girlfriend feel pressured about sex.

I’m 20 and she is 19. We’ve been together for two months.


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My mum asked if she would like to come for a sleepover at our house. She refused, saying she didn’t feel comfortable sleeping at mine.

Since then, she has been cold with me, and I think she now believes I only want her for sex.

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I feel terrible that I made her feel pressured.

I’d be happy to wait until she is ready.

DEIDRE SAYS: Tell her you’re sorry you gave her the wrong impression and you are happy to go at her pace.

Explain your parents were just trying to be friendly and want to get to know her.

Say you would like to show her you are genuine – you just need a chance.

My support pack, Learning About Relationships, will help.

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