I've been seeing my 'friend with benefits' for two years but he cheated on me while on holiday

DEAR DEIDRE: A GUY I’ve been seeing as a “friend with benefits” didn’t want anything serious.

But we’ve been together for two years and I got my hopes up – until he went on holiday and played away.


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I am 25 and this guy is 33. For the last year or so he has hinted that he’d like us to be in a relationship, though he’d never admit it.

It was great during the first lockdown as I knew he couldn’t get up to much. But then he went on holiday to Turkey with a mate, another single guy, when that was still OK.

I sent him messages while he was away but never got a reply and he didn’t make any effort to see me when he got back.

When I asked why, he said he didn’t trust that I’d been faithful. He finally admitted that he’d cheated on me and had sex with a woman tourist.

I can’t forget about it and I want to walk away, but I don’t feel strong enough.

DEIDRE SAYS: What do they say about actions speaking louder than words?

He’s never going to offer commitment and has been playing you.

You deserve someone who really appreciates you and will be faithful to you.

Best walk away.

My e-leaflet on Addictive Love will help you think this through.

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