My partner grabbed me by the throat and said he could snap my neck in half

DEAR DEIDRE:  MY partner grabbed me by the throat and said he could snap my neck in half with one move.

I was so shocked I sat in the back garden and cried.

We’ve been together for a year. I’m a 61-year-old widow and he is 58 and divorced.

I was getting fed up because our relationship seems so one-sided.

He regularly asks for oral sex, or for me to rub his feet and his back, but he never does anything for me.

He had been drinking at home one night and I asked whether he had gone off me, and that was how he reacted.

I’ve moved back into my flat but should I go back to him?

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DEIDRE SAYS: No. This man is a narcissistic abuser and the next time he gets physical, it could be serious.

I am sorry but you have no future with a man who wants to hurt you.

Give yourself a chance to find someone who can give you what you deserve.

Check out The Freedom Programme (01942 262 270, which is designed primarily for female victims of domestic violence, but will also help abusers who want to change.

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